Saturday, April 10, 2010

Nate the Great - Teenager!

I can't let this day go by without writing a post about our birthday boy, Nathan, who is now, officially a teenager! I can't believe it! It seems like just a few days ago he was born, by far the easiest pregnancy and childbirth of all of my kids. He was so easy on his poor old mom, and I am hoping he will continue the tradition, and be my easiest teenager. Then again, he may have different ideas about that.

Nathan is a kid who loves to do many things. He is always busy with something:

Nathan is a musician. He plays both the saxophone and the piano. I love to have real, live music in my home all the time!

Nathan is also quite the martial artist. He will be testing for his black belt in the next few months. He also swims with me a few mornings a week, and loves to play water polo in the summertime.

Nate also love scouting (who wouldn't love getting to fly to earn the aviator merit badge?). He enjoys camping, and is progressing quickly through the ranks as he collects his merit badges.


And that boy can cook! He is a whiz in the kitchen. His specialty: crepes - filled with everything yummy. But he can cook lots of different stuff, and it is so nice as a mom to say, "Hey Nate, will you whip up some dinner?" and know we'll all be eating something fabulous. I love that!

For Halloween, Nathan was our Sleepy, which is quite fitting because that kid can snooze anytime, anywhere - a skill that might come in very helpful as a teenager.

Nathan is also fascinated by fishing. He loves it and is always begging his pop to take him fishing - somewhere. We don't exactly live in a land of many waters - but if we did, he's be that kid who is always at the local fishing hole.


Nathan can build really great stuff with Legos, and really likes his Star Wars action figures, especially the "cool" ugly ones. But his favorite toys (well, he wouldn't call them 'toys' - they are serious business!) are his airsoft guns. His favorite way to spend the day is battling with his buddies behind bunkers. Whooya!

Of course, Nathan is also quite the actor. Since he was a small boy, he has always loves dressing up in costumes, especially hats, and pretending to be someone else. No wonder acting comes naturally to him. He is just so comfortable on the stage, and can keep in character really well. He can also sing, which really helps.

Nathan also loves to read, and is a sponge for soaking up information. He does very well in school, and can breeze through most tests without much studying. He just remembers stuff, and is always saying, "Hey, did you know... ?" No, usually, I didn't know. He really knows a lot about the gospel and usually has all the answers in Sunday school and FHE. He is the kind of kid who will LOVE seminary, I think.)

Nate is quite a kid. But I think my favorite thing about Nathan is is grin! He is witty and fun to be around when he is on one of those clever funny moods - dishing it out with the best of them. We are hoping for lots of those moments through his teenage years.

I love you, Nate the Great - Teenager!

Happy Birthday!

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

A Jump on Easter!

I got to help Caleb's first grade class with their Easter egg hunt on Thursday. It was so fun. The teacher gave me a HUGE bag of eggs to hide at the park, and little Luke actually helped me a ton with getting them all hid.

Those cute 1st graders were so excited as they came marching over to have their hunt. They didn't have to wait for the teacher to say "Go!" Most of them hopped right to it.


Their teacher helped them each make one of these darling bunny baskets out of milk cartons. Aren't they supper cute!

Someone also helped their mommy make the cute bunny cupcakes. You could tell the sweet bunny ears were cut out by a 1st grader.


When the eggs were all found, the kids all got to play at the park. Caleb was proud to show off his little brother to all his friends.

What a hoppy day!

Between Saturday Conference Sessions there is Just Enough Time To...

hop in our golf cart with a few kids on bikes and ride over to the park,...


play a few rounds of frisbee,...


scoot on over to the new church to see how it is progressing,...


stop at Rite-Aid for some ice cream,...

and make it back just in time for Mo-Tab singing the opening song of the second session.

I'm thinking this will be a new tradition!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Our Passover Meal



Last Thursday night our family had our traditional Passover meal which we have every Thursday evening before Easter to remember the Last Supper that occurred during the feast of the Passover on Christ's final week before his crucifixion. We have been doing it for several years now, and it is a special evening for our family. It started out very simple where we sampled a few of the foods from the Jewish Seder ceremony and discussed the symbolism of them before eating our "Jerusalem dinner" of foods that Christ might have had in his time. But as my boys have gotten older and are to the point where they can really understand and participate, and as I have learned more and received more insights, we spend more and more time on the symbolism of the Seder - there is SO much symbolism of Christ and his atonement there! My children really listen and pay attention, and the spirit is so strong.

We have our Passover meal outside. I cover the table with muslin then decorate with palm fronds, oil lamps, a statue of Christ in Gethsemane, and of course the ceremonial Seder food. (I don't have a Seder plate yet - still looking for a cool one at a garage sale.)

When dinner is ready, we light the lamps, someone gives a blessing on the food, and perhaps we will sing an Easter hymn, and then we begin. The actual Seder ceremony is quite long and involves stories, prayers and chants. It's purpose is to bring the Jews to a remembrance of Moses' bringing the children of Israel out of bondage to the Egyptians and the miracle of the passover. We don't do this as a family, though we did a shortened version of it just Wednesday with the youth and I found it extremely interesting and I learned a lot.

What I do with my family is much simpler. We discuss each of the ceremonial foods in the Seder, (and sample them, of course) and some of the other things that occur during the ceremony. We talk about what Each thing represents as far as the Jews believe concerning the events of the passover, and then we discuss what each thing represents as symbolic for Jesus Christ and his atonement.

First we talk about what symbols are, and how the Lord uses symbols to teach, especially in his temples. Then I have the boys tell us the story of Moses and the plagues and the Passover. then we go through the foods: a lamb shank, fresh parsley and salt water, horseradish, romaine lettuce, charoset (finely chopped apples, nuts, cinnamon, and honey), and a roasted egg, grape juice (wine), and matzos (unleavened bread.)



lamb shank: The lamb shank represents the pascal lamb - unblemished first born lamb - the blood of which the Jews were supposed to paint their doorposts with on that fateful night of the first Passover. After that, the pascal lamb was to be used for sacrifice in the temple in Jerusalem. back then, the Jews would sacrifice and devour an entire lamb. Now that the Jews no longer have a temple, they only use a lamb shank to symbolize the pascal lamb. Of course, Christ is the Lamb of God, the firstborn, only begotten of the father, and without blemish of sin. The Jews were being prepared for Christ's coming and then crucifixion when they were told to sacrifice the lamb. Additionally, the lamb also reminds us that Christ is the Good Shepard, and we are his sheep. The sheep know his voice and follow him. He gives his life for his sheep.

I have tried to make lambs a special part of our Easter, and we kind of steer away from the Easter Bunny for this reason. Lambs are just so much more symbolic of the true meaning of the holiday. Click here to see my lamb collection that I posted last year.

This year I have added these sweet sheep that my dear friend Shari brought me from a small wooden toy shop in Germany. I just love them!

Parsley and salt water: The saltwater represents the tears of the Jewish slaves in Egypt, and the fresh parsley represents springtime and life. The Jews dip the parsley into the salt water and eat it as a remembrance that they were in bondage and in sorrow, and that they were freed and given a new life. Of course, the salt water can also represent the bitter tears spilt by Christ in the garden of Gethsemane on our behalf, and also the tears of sorrow spilt by His disciples when he was crucified, and later tears of joy when they learned that he was indeed risen again. Also, the tears of pain and sorrow that we feel when we sin. The parsley is spring and life, and absorbs the tears, like Christ and his atonement will do for us if we but repent.

Bitter Herbs (horseradish/romaine): We used to do Romaine as our bitter herb, because it is much milder fir the kids. But this year we tried the horseradish, and it had a much more powerful effect. Both start our mild when you first eat them, but then get bitter as you shew them. The horseradish gets eye-watering intense! They both represent the state of the Jews in Egypt. They came to Egypt initially because of Joseph to flee the famine. Sweet. But over the generations, somehow their stay there became extremely bitter as they were made into slaves. Egypt represents sin. So too, the bitter herbs can represent sin, which often at first seems mild, like addiction for instance, like it isn't hurting anybody, or its not that bad, but the longer it is indulged, the more bitter it becomes.

Charoset: Charoset is a mixture of finely chopped apples, cinnamon, and nuts, sometimes with grape juice or honey added for sweetness. It is supposed to represent the mortar that the Jewish slaved used when laying the bricks and stones to build Egypt. It is eaten with the horseradish to drastically cut the bitterness. It represents the sweetness that has replaced the bitter for the Jews, though they still remember the bitterness. It represents taking the bitter with the sweet, and how there are always blessings that come from every misfortune. And as we take the sweet charoset with the spicy horseradish, it represents Christ's atonement, and how it can make bitter things sweet for us, and how his suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane was both bitter and sweet.

Roasted Egg: Eggs also represent the promise of new life, which is why they are the premiere symbol of Easter. When the Jews left Egypt is was a new life for them. Of course eggs represent Christ as he was resurrected with new life, and as the giver of new life after repentance and redemption from sin. To be eaten, eggs must be broken out of the shell, just as Christ has to be broken out of the tomb, and as we can be broken out or our shells of sin through Christ.

Wine (grape juice): Wine is for celebrating and rejoicing, and represents the joy of the Jews for being saved from slavery. It plays an integral part of the Seder, as the wine is drunk 4 times during the ceremony corresponding to Jehovah's 4 promises of redemption: 1) I will deliver you from the burdens of you oppressors, 2) I will rid you of their bondage, 3) I will redeem you with stretched out arms, and with great judgements, and 4) I will take you to me.

Of course, as we know, it was this passover meal the that Christ was eating when he had his last supper and introduced the sacrament to his beloved disciples. Luke records that Jesus chose the "cup after supper" to use for the first sacrament. This would be the cup #3 "I will redeem you with stretched out arms, and with great judgements." This is significant as that very night he would begin to fulfill that promise in the Garden of Gethsemane.

And, of course, for us during sacrament each week, the wine, or in our case, water, represents the blood of Christ that was spilt for us, that we partake of in remembrance of him.


Matzos (unleavened bread): In the passover feast the Jews use unleavened, or flat bread to represent the fact that when the Pharaoh changed let the Jews go, it was sudden and they had very little time to prepare to leave. They did not even have time to let the dough rise so they used no leaven, like yeast, in their bread. Thus it was flat.

While leavening produces gasses that make bread fluff up and rise, it is also corrupting as leavened bread will get moldy, and unleavened bread will not. In that way, the unleavened bread represents Christ who was pure, without sin and puffed up pride.

Also, if you look at a square of matzo it is pierced and striped, just as Christ was pierced in his hands and feet, and with his stripes, we are healed.

Interestingly, there is a part of the Seder, where three pieces of matzo are held up. The middle or second, piece is removed, broken in half, and half is wrapped in a cloth, and hidden somewhere in the room by an adult. Later a child must find the hidden piece of the second matzo, and return it before the Seder can proceed any further. The second matzo is then eaten by everyone in the room.

The symbolism for Christ in this Jewish ceremony is remarkable. The three matzos represent the Godhead: God the Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost. Christ is the second of the three. His body, like the second matzo, was broken and wrapped in a clean linen cloth, where it was separated from his other half, his spirit, for a time. And nothing could proceed until it was returned - just like the resurrection for all living things could not commence until Christ was first resurrected. Eating the matzo is exactly the same reason we eat the bread during sacrament on Sunday. It represents his flesh, and in eating it, we are internalizing him, and he becomes a part of us.


I'm a sure that there is much more symbolism of Christ and his mission hidden in the Passover meal. This is just what I have learned so far. I learn something new every year, and I know my children are understanding it more and more as well. I am amazed at how reverent they all were as we discussed these things at our passover meal this year, and at the insights they had when I asked questions. Even Caleb said some insightful comments.

One last thing that I learned this year that I thought was really wonderful was that at the very end of the Seder everyone cheers "Next year in Jerusalem!" together. In hopes that this will be the year that the Messiah will come and the temple will be rebuilt. I love that! We should do the same. "This year in New Jerusalem!" perhaps, in hopes that this is the year that our Savior will come again and usher in the millennium. We can always hope, right?





May your joy be in Christ!

Oh, and Happy Birthday Jesus!


Another Week of Awards!

Momma and Luke were busy last week attending 4 different awards programs.

At the elementary school, Caleb, Derek, and Dylan each earned a gold medal for their annual read-a-thon competition. From October to March, the kids have to keep track of their reading and turn in lists. For first graders, a list is 12 books. For 5th graders a list is 250 pages. And in order to win a gold medal you have to turn in at least 8 lists, so there was a whole lot of reading going on in our house!

Good job super-readers!


Then, at the middle school, both Alex and Nathan were recognized for their stellar grades!!! They both did so well this quarter. Alex earned straight A's again, of course, but Nate was about as close as you could get (all A's except for an 89% in just one class - ouch! Still very good though.)

On top of that, Nathan got a very special award, the "Character Counts" award given to him by Mrs. Thomas, the drama teacher. Every teacher gets to give a special award to one student who is an example of the character that they have been studying in the school that month. This time it was honesty. In her nomination, which was read to the audience, she said "Nathan, I have been so impressed with your honest-to-goodness portrayal of a Pirate King! You were the first to have your part memorized, and have been, honestly, so reliable that I don't know what I would do without you! Congratulations!"

The interesting thing is that every teacher gets to choose one of their students, and Nathan is not actually one of her students. She just had to pick him anyway!

So, after last week we can add 3 medals, and 6 certificates to our family medal count! Way to go you smart boys!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Ever Read "Lord of the Flies"?

The other night Dennis and I went out on a date and left all six boys at home. When we got home the house was all dark, and when we opened the front door there was something right in the entry way. We switched on the light to find this:




Under the blanket we found this:

Boys.

I think this might be the only way to get Derek to wear pink.

Derek was totally fine. Once again, it was his idea.

Having all boys is making me numb. Nothing shocks me anymore.

I just kissed him on the his taped-up forehead and went to bed. (Just kidding)

Sunday, April 4, 2010

April Four-Eyed Fools!

On Thursday Dylan played a great April Fools trick on his class, with the help from Derek and their teacher, Mrs. J, who was totally in on it.

You must know that my twins have spent at least a month trying to come up with the perfect April fool's. I have heard every plan imaginable. Apparently, fifth graders have an inborn NEED to plot the ultimate April first prank, and their teacher has seen quite a few doozies in her time.

This year Dylan had me buy these lovely glasses for him at Wal-Mart. He showed up to school wearing them on Thursday morning. He told everyone that he failed the recent vision screening at school, so him mom took him in for an eye appointment, and the Dr. said he needed glasses right away. His mom didn't want him going back to school without glasses while his new glasses were being made, but there were some glasses already made that were the exact same prescription and his mom bought them for him to wear right away - even if they were a bit big for him. (Yah, I know. This whole thing hinged on the idea that I am a complete numbskull - a sacrifice in reputation that I was willing to make for my child and the sacred April Fools' holiday.)

Dylan came to school, and acted all embarrassed and upset that he had to wear those stupid glasses. He really hammed it up, and showed off his thespian skills. At first his classmates were kind of making fun of him, and he got so upset that he had to leave the room so no one would see him cry. While he was out of the room trying to regain his composure, their teacher told them that Dylan was very upset, and that they all need to be more sensitive to Dylan. She laid a guilt trip on them all, and when Dylan came back in the room, the teacher showered him with candy and stuff to make him feel better. So then the kids went way overboard telling Dylan that his glasses were very nice and they looked good on him, etc. The teacher said it was hilarious to watch the kids outright lie to him like that. Then she had to send Dylan out again, and explain to the class again the fine balance between making someone feel better without giving outrageous false compliments. She asked what would happen if everyone told him he looked terrific in his glasses and so he decided to keep those ones and cancel the new glasses he had ordered. It was funny. It lasted most of the day, and the teacher really played it up and used it for a teaching moment for the kids.

And the funny thing was that Derek, who is NOT a skilled liar (he always smiles and laughs when he is lying), was laughing and giggling the whole time. But instead of his behavior giving the joke away, everyone just thought that he was laughing at Dylan and his stupid glasses (because Derek's glasses are just so much cooler!) and just chalked it up to Derek picking on his brother. Derek (like me) didn't mind being made to look like a mean brother, as long as it perpetuated the joke. He loved being a part of it all, and still insists that the whole thing was his idea.

Anyway, Dylan finally let the cat out of the bag much to every one's surprise. A successful April fools' prank! (and nobody got hurt!)

Now we don't have to think about coming up with another prank again for another 11 months.


But I'm thinking that Dylan's glasses were not the only prank being pulled in the elementary school that day - not in a school where the Easter Bunny, who kind of resembles the principle, is directing traffic.

Happy April y'all!

Monday, March 29, 2010

Hurrah for the Pirate King!

Last week Nathan was in his middle school musical - The Pirates of Penzance! Nathan had a great role as the swashbuckling Pirate King! (He is being type cast as the villain. He has been a Nazi officer, a murderer, and now a pirate. But that is a good thing, because the bad guys are always the funnest parts to play!)


Plus the Pirate King gets his very own song! "I am the Pirate King! Hurrah for the Pirate King!" (see video at bottom of this post.)

Nathan did a terrific job! He was a natural on stage and kept in character the whole time.

It was an action-filled musical adventure, and I enjoyed every minute of each of the tree performances. All the kids did a great job!

A special thanks to all of our friends and family who came to support Nate and watch the show!


Enjoy the short clip of Nate's song below. Hurrah for the Pirate King!


"What a glorious thing it is to be a Pirate King!"

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Running Wild!

The VanBuskirks have been running wild lately with the Elementary School track meet last weekend and the ward 5K this weekend.


Dylan ran the 800 yards, the 100 yards, and the relay. He did a great job and got two bronze medals!


Derek ran the 400 and the 800. Unfortunately I was not there for those races because I had to take Nathan to a band competition at the same time (Nathan's band got the highest award by the way. He was pretty pleased about their performance!!!) So I have no pictures of Derek's runs, but he ran a few good races from what I hear.


Caleb ran the 100 and participated in the baseball throw. He ran hard and threw hard. In fact he can just short of medaling in the baseball throw. He was so cute doing push-ups to get ready for his throw.

Everybody tried hard and we all had a great time!


Oh, did I mention we got a new family vehicle? Yep! A very classy mini-mercedes looking 6 seater electric car. The lap of luxury! We figured that since we are in electric car distance from a school,m TaeKwanDo, Grandma's house, and soon, our new church building, it would be a smart move to get an electric car to get around the neighborhood in rather than the big gas guzzleing Suburban. (No, they don't make 8 seater electric cars. We checked. But with 6 seats, it still holds more people that Dennis' car.) We got it just the night before, so it was fun to take it to the track meet. In fact, it worked out quite grand because we drove it right onto the blacktop and had a nice shaded place to sit and watch the races! The kids think it is super exciting to ride. Now we'll be running wild all over the neighborhood in our little cart.


The running wild continued yesterday with our ward 5K activity.

Dennis and the 2 older boys were on a scout campout, so it was just me and the 4 younger ones. The other 3 took off and were out of my view within seconds of the start of the race. I stayed with Luke who was on his scooter.

We had gone a whole hundred yards or so when Luke started complaining that his legs were getting tired. He made me carry his scooter, and started running. The he just sat on a curb and declared that he was done. Done. So, when he had gotten a bit of energy back, he and his little friend Brinley made their own route, looping around one small block and made their way back to the finish line. He was pretty excited because we were the first ones across. He couldn't understand why he didn't win a medal. I guess they only give medals for finishing the 5k, not the 0.5k.

So I made my way to a nice spot near the finish line and took pictures of all the runners/walkers/scooters as they rushed past. I was sure to have my camera on the action setting because some of these folks were FAST! Dylan was among the fastest! He came in second for the kids and even beat most of the adults. Running wild indeed!

It was such a beautiful day! What a nice day to be outside! And it was a great turn out. So fun to see everyone!

It was so fun to watch everyone come by in the bright blue shirts and cheer for them. I was impressed by the people who pushed heavy strollers that were heavy laden with kids. They reminded me of the handcarts rolling in.
What a fun day. I sure hope that "1st Annual" means there will be many more to come!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Avatar Luke

On Saturday we had a bunch of poster paint out on the backyard table so we could make the fabulous posters for our ward's roadshow. While I was waiting for the paint to dry, Luke helped himself to all the leftover paint in the paper plate palette.

What started as finger painting, well... spread.


I guess he like how his blue hand looked, so he just kept going.


I thought I would die when he started painting his pits with that little paintbrush!


He continued up his arm.


And onto his back, though I am fairly confident he had help. I don't think he could have possible put this on his own back.


This was just too fun! I had to just let him go for it and take a few very colorful pics at the same time. (I love this one!)


And then the face!



Another favorite pic!

Ah, the accomplice, caught green handed. Call forensics. I'm sure the hand print will match the one we found on Luke's back.


Is anything more fun than mixing paint with your bare hands? All of those fluorescent colors mixed into this bluish green.


One thing you must understand about Luke is that when he colors, he is very thorough - always having to cover every bit of paper, or in this case, flesh! Caleb was a little too eager to help!


Cutie Cabes!


Does this remind you of one of those natives in Avatar? Me too! Only instead of a loincloth, Nemo Under-Roos.


Well, the native got restless, especially when I threatened to hose him down. (He took off his underwear because he didn't want to get his underwear wet. Silly kid!) Then I had to chase the slippery, slimy Avatar down and get him into the tub.

This picture totally cracked me up! Doesn't it look like the avatar clone bodies in the movie when they are "sleeping". That is exactly what he was doing. I told him he couldn't get out of the tub until he was totally clean, but he refused to let me wash his hair and face, so I couldn't let him out. He was crying and carrying on while I was there in the bathroom getting ready. Suddenly he stopped crying, and I turned around to find this.

He was totally asleep! Hilarious!

(Don't you just love all the paint on the side of the tub, and the color of that bath water? )



I've learned as a parent that sometimes you just have to let your kids paint their pits...

... and then grab your camera.