Friday, March 5, 2010

Reunited - and it feels so good!

Have you heard the news? Finally, after a long, long separation, one of the all-time great duos is getting back together. No, not Sonny & Cher, not Sigfried & Roy, not Laverne & Shirley, not George & Gracie, not Abbott & Costello, not Batman & Robin...

I'm talking about me and Mac! Yep, my laptop, my faithful friend, who I go to first thing in the morning, and say good bye to last thing at night, the keeper of my treasured photos, my access to the wonders of cyberspace, and my faithful sidekick in all my adventures in the blogosphere has finally been returned to me.

Our famous partnership came crashing to an end just after Christmas vacation when Luke knocked my laptop onto the tile floor, smashing the screen. What should have been a quick screen replacement stretched out to 6 long weeks due to an international shortage of that particular screen. Torturous! After a lonely flight to Kansas City and back, Mac came home, but he was just not the same.

He looked great in his shiny new screen, but he sure wasn't functioning the way he used to. His memory was full, and was running incredibly slow. I couldn't download anything else. But it wouldn't let me back up anything on an external hard drive, or burn CDs, so I had no way of backing up all of my precious photos so I could clean them off the computer to create more memory. I was stuck! Horribly, hopelessly stuck!

Well, it took 3 more weeks, and the help of several people to get the problem resolved (I hope) and now finally, blessedly, Mac is back right where he should be, warm and cozy on my lap!

Now I wish I wasn't so busy this weekend because Mac and I really need some alone time. We've got a lot of catching up to do! (Thousands of photos to download and edit, and we are SO behind on our blogging. Plus we have to do a ton of organizing and housecleaning, and backing up files and burning CDs, etc. Plus, I have an EXCITING new project underworks that I can't wait to finish and introduce to everyone!!! Stay tuned!)

But at least we are together again, and Mac is feeling like his old self again...

and that is all that matters right now.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Pretty as a Princess..um...er...(clear the throat)..I mean...a Punk

Last Saturday, Luke was invited to a birthday party for his friend Brinley. He was so excited and couldn't stop talking about going.


In hindsight, I realize that the catastrophe that was about to occur could possibly have been avoided, had I properly prepared and informed Luke about what he was about to see.

Did I mention this was a Princess party? I guess I didn't mention it to him either.

Poor Luke.

He sensed something was amiss when instead of pulling into Brinley's driveway we stopped in a parking lot of a mini mall. He was hesitant about stepping foot into "Enchanted Memories" something that looked every bit like a beauty parlor - not that the youngest of six boys has any idea what a beauty parlor is - but he knew instinctively that this was just WRONG! Really, really wrong and his brothers would NEVER approve.


Yes, he recognized the faces, sort of. But what on earth were they doing? Why did they look like that? Luke began to panic. We got about halfway into the place when Luke sized up a huge castle in the back half of the building. Now, boys like castles, right? Castles can be cool - especially when being attacked by marauding invaders, or better yet, fire-breathing dragons. But this was NOT that kind of castle. EVERYTHING was pink and sparkling - from the pink shag rug to the walls to the ceiling.


THIS was a PRINCESS castle - no doubt about that!


Luke took ONE LOOK at that castle and declared definitively "I'm leaving!"and in an instant had dropped the present, turned, and BOLTED full speed out the door!


He would NOT go in there. As much as I tried to convince Luke that those princesses really needed a handsome prince, and that there were other boys in there who were man enough to stay in a princess castle, every little bit of man inside of him was screaming this this was just not right!


What a cruel, cruel trick to spring a princess party on a real man like him! Unbearable humiliation!


(For the record, Luke was NOT the only little boy to run terrified and teary-eyed out of there that day. It really was that scary pink!)

I finally drug Luke back inside where I introduced him to the video games. He declared that he didn't want to play princess games, but I convinced him that Mario Bros. is hardly a princess game, so, with the promise of birthday cake he eventually gave in and decided to stay a while. What bravery!

While the girls got curly, glittery locks and princess crowns, the boys got some "manly" whacked out colorful styles. Luke was still to wary, even when all the "cool" kids were doing it.

Luke finally gave in to a faux-hawk - but NO COLOR! And NO Face paint.

When Luke realized his manhood was not to be stripped from him, he started to enjoy himself.



He hung out with the cool kids...



and kept an eye on the pretty princesses...






and avoided getting hit by the spinning princesses...

He was even invited to tea with the queen - all the while managing to keep his manhood in tact.


Happy Birthday Princess Brinley!


And congratulations Prince Luke for being man enough to face your dragon (albeit a very pink dragon) head on! The very picture of bravery (with cool man-hair too!)


Friday, February 26, 2010

The Problem with Divided Attentions

I am in a rotten mood, frankly, because I had a lousy evening and it is all my own fault.

I am the Young Women's president, as you probably know, and while there are lots of reasons I love the calling (most of them are between the ages of 12 and 18!), it is leadership, and I frankly can't stand leadership callings. (Would 'loathe" be too strong a word, do you think?) I am a teacher, born and bred, and would rather teach anything, anywhere than be in any presidency. Period. (Especially president where it ALL ultimately begins and ends with me.) But alas, the Lord keeps having other plans for me, and this calling is by far the toughest, busiest calling I have ever had! Coincidentally, it is also happens to the absolute toughest, busiest time in my life - apart from my calling - with kids ranging from teenagers to preschool (who all really NEED me, by the way!) I am still trying to understand why the Lord thought now was a good time for me to do this. (ohh. murmur murmur. Please indulge me. I'm having a bad night, OK?)

Anyway, Wednesday was our New Beginnings, and like I am the day of any such big YW event, I was running around like headless chicken trying to get everything done on time - there are always so many last minute details that require my attention (and always something I forget!) Somehow, however I did get most of it done, though I didn't get a shower or dinner before rushing off to the church. But at some point in the midst of this mad dash to get it all done, I vaguely remember getting a phone call from Dennis. He said something about tickets to a game Friday. My end of the conversation: "Cool (disinterested because I was wondering if there were cups in the closet)... Naw, go ahead and take one of the boys (as I was trying to locate some tape and straight pins)... yep, sounds fun for you guys (putting some last minute touches of sparkly blue spray paint on something)...OK-love-ya-bye (as I gathered a pile of tiaras and easels and tossed then into the box.) Ten minutes later I had no memory of my hubby ever calling.

Well, New Beginnings came and went. (How is it that an event that takes hours and days of preparations can all be over in just over an hour?) I think it was all a great success. (But there is NEVER rest for the weary! YW stuff seems to stack up! There is always some other big thing barreling down the chute at me, seems like. (Can you say "road shows"?)

Today was Friday. Dennis rushed home from work early, grabbed my oldest child who was selected to go with Dad to the game ("oh, that's right, the game!" thought I), and they were off...

And so was I. Off to get other kids from school, off to take the twins to their book club. Off to pick up Nate from play practice. (Off and running. Always off and running.) Then suddenly my brakes start grinding and smelling and I have to run my car to the shop even though I have NO gas, only to be told that they were about to close, and they couldn't help me and their only advise was to NOT drive my car in this condition for the sakes of my family members' lives. (Gee, thanks for the help.) Then I came home to find Nathan wandering around the cul-de-sac freaked out because Caleb and Luke had snuck out through the garage and run off, and it was getting dark! After a very stressful 10 minutes looking over fences expecting to see two dark masses on the bottom of every pool, the little hooligans were finally located hiding in a neighbor's backyard. They were apparently playing hide and seek! Nobody was counting!!! I then spent the rest of the evening using sundry techniques (some of which I am not proud) to get my kids to clean out the filthy car and then turn their attentions to their hurricane disaster level bedrooms. Such was my evening.

But the worst part of the evening was the information I obtained when I called Dennis to report about the car trouble, and lost and found children, and the break out of World War III. He said they were in downtown LA which really confused me because in my mind he was in Anaheim at the Angels game. Dennis pretty regularly gets tickets to Angels games and since I have NO desire to sit through any baseball game, ever, and he knows that, he usually take turns taking the boys. I guess when he called me on Wednesday all I had heard was "blah, blah, free tickets, blah blah game."

Turns out they were awesome tickets - center, 5th row back, value $275 each - to the Lakers game at the Staples Center! They weren't just some tickets someone didn't want, they were a BONUS awarded to Dennis from one of his insurance companies!!! A big deal!

I had no idea.

Somehow I had missed all of this! How on earth did I miss this information? He swore he had called me SO excited and told me all about it and couldn't wait to bring me, and I had turned him down with a "Naw." Poor Dennis. Poor me. The thing is that I would have totally loved going to a Lakers game! I am so mad at myself for not registering any of this when he called that crazy day.

So, due entirely to my divided attentions, I am home with a broken car, no dinner, a dirty house and a houseful of uncooperative children, and he is calling periodically to tell be how awesome the seats are, and how great the action is, and just what famous and cool people are sitting within spitting distance all around them - thus making my rotten evening even worse.

And it is all my fault.

I am apparently not very good at dividing my attentions between my calling and my family.

Woe is me!

Goodnight.

Monday, February 22, 2010

Medal Recount (this time with REAL medals)

OK, so I don't know how I overlooked it, but when counting the recent awards, accomplishments, and accolades received by the VanBuskirk family in my last post, I completely FORGOT the huge accomplishment that started the whole streak of good luck we have been having these past two weeks to begin with - Derek and Dylan's second Lego Robotics Competition! Holy Cow! What is wrong with my mind?
As you may remember, the twins chose not attend their very first (and we thought at the time their only) Lego Robotics competition at Legoland back in December because the competition was on a Sunday. They were disappointed but were glad that they made the choice they did. Good things come to those who wait because their school got invited back to Legoland for a special Lego Robotics Invitational this month. Happily, it was on a Saturday, so the boys got to have their day on stage after all!
Dennis and I had been gone for a week on our cruise and that Saturday morning we got off the boat and drove straight to Legoland to meet the boys there. What fun it was to watch them do there thing and cheer them on...

... to VICTORY!!! Team G.O.A.L., the twins' team got the first place trophy for TEAMWORK! First Place is pretty awesome! And guess who the team leader is? None other than our own Dylan, which makes thee victory all the sweeter. Everyone knows that great teamwork begins with a great team leader!

Of course Derek was a tad excited too! (Can you see his tonsils? The picture was scarier before I fixed the red eye!)
What an exciting, exciting day for Reagan Robotics! We were so glad we were able to be there this time!


After the competition we went on a few rides at Legoland (what is the deal with Legoland, by the way? We just keep getting sucked back there and winning stuff while we're there.)
Then we took the twins to explore the Sea Life Aquarium there. We had a great time, just the 4 of us!



So that is how the whole winning streak started just two weeks ago.
The revised VanBuskirk Medal Count for February then is:
4 ribbons
3 certificates
4 trophies
1 red belt
and 2 medals!
And the month ain't over yet!





Sunday, February 21, 2010

Current Medal Count

No, this is not an official NBC website and I am not reporting the current medal standings at the Winter Olympic Games. (But if you really wan to know, Team USA currently sits on top of the medal count with 6 golds and 23 total medals - I have an app on my iPhone and I have tried to watch every broadcasted second of these games, except hockey (blah)... and curling (?). I must admit, it is an addiction, but luckily one I can control, because the Olympics are the only sports I ever watch, and they happen only two weeks every two years. I'm pretty much glued to the TV from opening exercises until they extinguish that flame. So exciting!)

anyway...

I am reporting the medal count for Team VanBuskirk who has had a really great run these last couple of weeks, and though we have not won any actual medals, per se, we have an armload of new ribbons, trophies, and certificates to add to the family trophy case (if we had one).

Here is a rundown of the highlights:


In taekwando last Friday, Dennis tested for his red belt. He did a great job, and is well on his way to black.
He finished off the evening by putting his hand through a brick! He did it perfectly, because this time it didn't hurt a bit (his hand I mean - but I think the brick sure felt it!)

For his hard work and dedication, Dennis won a big trophy and a stylish new red belt! That is my man!


In academics, Alex once again earned straight A's at school and earned a Platinum 4.0 Award at the recognition ceremony at the middle school last week.
But even more impressive is the special award he received as the Principal's Patriot of the Month. The principal recognized him for the hard worker he is and for his helpful, happy attitude that is an example to all the students!
That is a gold medal in my book! Way to go, Al!



In science, there were a few upsets last week as both Derek and his twin brother Dylan unexpectedly received first place blue ribbons on their science fair projects (no pics, sorry). No one thought that they were in the running since they started both projects the night before they were due, and Mom and Dad, who were up half the night helping with both projects, got to the point where they could care less if anybody got any prize and just wanted them to get those stupid things done and turned in for credit. AGH!!!
Dylan's project was to try different lubricant to make a pinewood derby car faster. Derek tested where the weights should be places on the pinewood derby car to make it faster.
Despite having unenthusiastic support from their parents they both persevered and won blue ribbons. Now they get to move onto the district science fair! Whoopee!

In racing, there was excitement and high speeds this week. Despite initial discouraging results at the den pinewood derby due entirely to a ridiculously terrible beat-up old wooden track, The VanBuskirks redeemed themselves at the Date Festival, as the defending champions, returning to the track for more! On the nice smooth metal county fair track, Dylan's racer, the dark Knight, won every single race until the final race where it came to a photo finish just barely behind only one other car...



Derek's turquoise speeder that came in first place in the Webelos division!
Then, in the final round, Derek's car faced off against the other first place winners and won every race getting Best Overall at the county fair! (You know it was the county fair because you can see a trace of the signature cinnamon roll on Derek's face.) The VanBuskirk racing legacy of fast cars and winning runs continues 6 years running!
I guess they really did learn a few things doing those science fair projects after all.


In music, two weeks ago, Nathan performed a lovely piece on his saxophone at a special soloist even at his school in front of a judge and was awarded a grade of "Excellent!" Awesome, Nate! All of that practicing is really paying off!
(Nathan was also given a big part in their school's upcoming musical, the Pirates of Penzance. He will be the Pirate King! How cool is that?)


So there's the wrap up, folks. In the past two weeks, the VB "medal count" stands at:
3 certificates
4 ribbons
4 trophies
(and a very long strip of red fabric)
Way to go Team VanBuskirk!
Oh, and way to go Team USA too!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Desert Rain

Ten things I love about rain in the desert:


1. The rarity of it all. I just love the rain, and when it comes I want it to stay forever. I say that I would love it to rain every single day. I think that at the time, but in reality I know it would get old, and a lot dreary, after a while. The reason I love the rain so much is that it never happens here. This is a desert for a reason - it is not wet. So when the rain comes, it is almost like a little nibble from the forbidden fruit - making it all the more desirable. But who would really want it to rain all the time here? Then it would be all green and overgrown and tropical, just like Hawaii, and who would want that? Um, me. But alas, this is not Hawaii. It is the desert, and the rare rainstorm in the desert is a blessed thing!



2. The smell of the rain. Even before the rain comes, just the whiff of it in an impending rain is delightsome - that spicy tingle on the nose portends of what is to come. It stings the nose and smells like green and Grandpa and wool. Every time I walk outside in the rain I can't help but stop and suck it in like a thick milkshake. Ahhh!




3. The sound of the rain. That pat---- pat-----rat-a-pat-a-pat-tat-tat is music to my ears. Mother Nature is quite the percussionist! I can hear it best on the roof of the car, or sitting on the toilet. But my favorite place to listen to the rain is sitting in the big chair in the front room next to the open window where I can hear the fat raindrops plop into the fountain like kids doing cannonballs at the swimming hole. Plop! Plop! It makes for a great cadence to read by.



4. Soup. A rainstorm is a call for soup - soups in all it's varieties. This past storm it was tortilla soup, vegetable soup, tomato soup (with cheese, of course),white chili, curry (which is more like a stew, but shares the same category as far as I'm concerned) and best of all, and reserved for only the coldest and rainiest of days, Dad's Oyster Stew. Just the thought of it makes me all warm inside and I start to salivate. I hesitate to share the recipe with anyone outside of the family, because they just might think it sounds disgusting - plump green oysters floating in milk and cream, egg noodles, puddles of melted butter, and sprinkled with lots of pepper. Oyster sauce (must be Dynasty brand, Dad's orders) gives it a perfect salty sweetness. Some of my earliest and warmest memories are of staying up late enough to watch Daddy make a late night snack of oyster stew (yep, even after we had already had dinner) and feeling like the lucky one that got to have a small bowl while my siblings slept. I am happy that oyster stew is now my kids favorite meal as well, (since in my mind it is as important a Signs' family tradition as cheese balls at Christmas), and when the rain starts to fall, it is what they ask for. Mmm, mmm good!



5. Puddles. Perhaps it is because I was a desert rat that I have always been fascinated by bodies of water. Lakes, rivers, streams, and ponds fascinated me as a child. I imagined what it must be like to live in a place where there was a pond in the back and a little creek running by. So when the desert rains come, I am thrilled when grassy parks turn into ponds, gutters turn into babbling brooks, and streets turn into canals. Everything is transformed! As kid I imagined that there were fish in there and that I could rig me up a fishin' pole with a stick like Huck Finn and catch some dinner. I am not the only one who loves the temporary water holes. In that last big rain I saw folks at a neighborhood park-turned-lake floating around in their inflatable boat. And I still get a little thrill out of splashing in the rain puddles, and an even bigger one driving my Surburban through the large pools of standing water in the streets. You can still be driving slowly when the waves your tires make come clear up to the windows. Except when there is traffic coming the other way, then the game is to see if I can drive slow enough to not make any splash at all, like an Olympic high diver - extra points for a clean entry!



6. Sweaters - I love sweaters - in theory. Warm and snuggly! I say "in theory" because even with all the sweaters I own, (more than there are actual chilly days in the year), when that blessed rainy, chilly days comes, I gleefully try on a sweater that I have been waiting all year to wear, just to remember that the sleeves are too short. They are almost all too short - or, rather, my arms are almost always too long. I dream of the perfect long sleeved sweater to wear on the perfect rainy day. But alas, such a thing has yet to be. Until then, when there is a chill in the air, I wear one of the otherwise darling cuddly sweaters I do have and tug at my cuffs all day. A small price to pay for sweater weather.



7. Hot chocolate - Heaven in a cup! My one true weakness in the wintertime. Is there anything better than creamy hot chocolate flowing down your gullet, warming you up from the inside out? Every January when we all start looking to shed those holiday pounds, its the hot chocolate that holds me back. Cold weather calls for hot chocolate - hey, even mildly cool weather. Anything below 60 - I'm there! But when it is raining, hot chocolate is absolutely imperative! And for my hot chocolate, only the best will do - Stephens. Period. (Thanks you, Winco!) I love it extra strength and a really big mug with milk, mini marshmallows, and a chocolate dipped biscotti. Morning. Nightime. Anytime. I never lose weight in the rain for this very reason, so it is a good thing rain is so rare, I guess.



8. Baths. I love the pull and tug of opposites - sweet and salty, laughing till you cry, hot and cold. And in a rainstorm I love taking a hot, hot bath near an open window. When we bought this house I was thrilled about the big beautiful soaking tub until I realized that the big picture window right above it was a fixed single pane - it didn't open! Baths lost all their appeal to me because as steamy and hot as I like them when I get in, it isn't long before I am overheated and have to get out. After years of whining about the useless window, Darling Hubby finally had it replaced with one that slides open. Now bath time is perfect! I open the window wide and kick up the heat - bubble bath, a tall glass of ice water, a good book, and a perfect storm! That's all I need! When I get hot, all I need to do is stick my foot out toward the window to act like a wick to cool me off, and the sound of the rain falling (see #3 above) is like icing on the cake.


9. The morning after the rain. The sun is shining again and the sky is clear. Colors are brighter than ever, and everything is clean and fresh. But my very favorite part is that very first glimpse of the mountains surrounding us, perfectly white and sparkling in the bright sun, like someone poured out giant piles of powdered sugar onto the desert floor. During the storm, I love to see the clouds sitting heavily on those mountains. The mountains look like giants that have been tucked snugly into their down comforters with wisps of feathers poking out the edges. I love seeing that, and anticipating the transformation that tomorrow will bring. When those storm clouds roll away...magic! Those mountains really are glorious- especially those first few daylight hours of the morning after the storm, with the palm trees swaying in the foreground! What a sight!



10. And then come the wildflowers! Just wait....


Friday, January 29, 2010

Blogger help!

Does anyone know why my "comments/posted by" line is now appearing at the top of my posts rather than the bottom? I didn't touch anything and I don't know how to get it back where it should be, at the bottom of each post. Help!

Please leave your comment above. Thanks. :)

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Use Your Words

Today I was driving to a friend's home with Luke to go visiting teaching. As Luke has had an issue lately with potty mouth (the 3 year-old version) I was doing some mom-coaching on the way, reminding him that he must be a nice boy at her home and not say bad words.

"OK," Luke announced. "I won't say mean words like stupidhead and butthead. I'll just say nice words like fluffy and rubber ducky! Fluffy and rubber ducky are nice words. People like those words."

I almost had to pull of the road and hold my breath to keep from laughing. Where did he pluck those two words from?

But you have to admit - fluffy and rubber ducky are about the two most inoffensive words anywhere. Maybe I should replace my bad words with fluffy and rubber ducky (so, like, when I am driving with my kids listening to, say, the State of the Union Address on the radio I can say "Oh PLEASE! What a rubber ducky! That is the fluffyiest fluff I have ever heard!")

Try it! ( It feels just as good rolling off the tongue.) I think Luke was onto something.

Monday, January 25, 2010

Easy Come, Easy Go.

I can't stay away from my blog for long, so even though my computer is still (sniff sniff) broken(that particular screen is on back order - there is a "worldwide shortage" on only that screen, don't you know, ugh!) I am attempting to blog from my kids' computer and it is like driving and old jalopy when you are used to driving a Porsche...

or driving a beat-up old Suburban after driving a brand new Volvo.

A few weeks ago, Dennis, Luke and I drove down to Carlsbad to pick up our new Volvo from Legoland.

The car had been all detailed and shined up pretty for us. The hand-off was informal. The official from Legoland fished the keys out of his pocket and handed us a packet with the registration and such, posed for a quick picture for me, and it was done. He was very nice. He told us some more details that we didn't know before. Dennis' guess of 6,732 lego bricks was exactly right, and there about 90 other correct entries (not the 30-50 that we had guessed). And he was surprised to find out that we had only one entry in the pot, because he told us that most of the entries in the pot of finalists were multiple entries, meaning that several people, once they figured out the number, kept coming back and entering again and again to better their chances. I bet they were pretty disappointed when they didn't win. Dennis only had one entry, but like he said, "If the Lord wants us to win that car, all we need is one entry."

Actually, Dennis said that line a long, long time ago when he was just getting started in the insurance business. Dennis was driving a tiny little Ford Festiva back then because that was all we could afford on his small commissions. That was way back when he drove to his clients' homes. He would have to park around the corner so they couldn't see him climb out of a tiny little used car. The company he was working for at the time announced that they would be giving a 2 year lease on a new Jeep Cherokee away to one of their agents nationwide. Agents earned a ticket for every so much in sales they had during a certain period. Most agents earned several entries, but since Dennis was just starting out, he sold just enough to earn one ticket. But he was confident that he was going to win. "If the Lord wants us to win that car, all we need is one ticket." He went to work that day knowing he would win that car. Sure enough! When he called to tell me the good news, I didn't believe him and he had to get his boss on the phone as backup.

Anyway, so here we are at least ten years later, with the keys to another brand new car! Can you even believe that??? Something tells me that won't be the last car he will ever win, with the Lord's help of course. Goodness!

And with the new keys we opened the trunk of our new Volvo to find THIS:


Yep! All 6,732 lego bricks. Legoland let us keep ALL of them! Legoland ROCKS!!! (or BRICKS, perhaps.) That is 6,732 lego bricks that I will have spread all over my house and be stepping on in no time. Actually, we were very excited about all the free legos, and we knew the boys would be THRILLED!!! Legos truly are their very favorite toy in the whole world. They play with them for hours on end. This was going to be better than Christmas for sure!

In total there were 19 boxes of legos in the back of that car, a few were worth over $100 each! I added up the prices of all the boxes and they totaled $1,140!!! Score!

So Dennis, you just won a new car! Where are you going? - Um, to the Volvo dealership.

As cool as Dennis looked driving that new Volvo (just like a Cullen if you ask me), we both decided that our best course of action was to sell it. Dennis called all of the dealerships in SoCal and after picking up the new car, we drove directly to the dealership that offered us the best price.

Yes, I did get to drive it. I drove it from one parking lot to the one next to it at Legoland, reaching speeds of up to 15mph! It was quite exhilarating, I must say.

I know, selling our brand new Volvo is not very glamorous or exciting, but we decided it was our best option. The car is wonderful, but was too large for Dennis' needs (besides he already has a nice car), and it is too small for our family car (only a 5 seater). Although my Suburban is falling apart - literally, in chunks, we have recently put a whole heck of a lot of money into it, so instead of trading in the car for something new we decided that we will put the money into the bank and run our old car into the ground - even if we can get another year or two out of it that would be great. Besides, do you realize the damage 6 boys can do to a car? Oh my! We figure if we can hold off a few years that is a few years older (and hopefully less destructive) everyone will be to a new car.

We have also decided that we would use that money, after paying tithing, of course, to pay off all our credit cards and such first. That way we can use the money we would be spending on interest to save toward our new car.

So we drove home, without a trophy car, but feeling much, much lighter!

Of course Dennis' car was weighed down a bit with 19 boxes of legos in the trunk. The boys had no idea. When we got home we told the boys to come outside and help us carry in some stuff from dad's trunk. When we opened the trunk...


... it was Christmas all over again! The looks on their faces were priceless!!!


New car/old car - they didn't care. Those legos were more exciting than anything!!!

We have opened 5 boxes so far, and they have been having so much fun with them. I'm so glad we won a car full of Legos and not, say, Barbies. Just saying.
They are such good boys. They deserve it.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Undaunted



I just finished reading The Undaunted by Gerald Lund, the author of The Work and The Glory series. I really enjoyed The Work and the Glory books because they helped me understand church history, and the names and places that we have learned about in Sunday School became real to me. But I had even more reason to be excited about Lund's new book, The Undaunted, because it is about the harrowing "Hole in the Rock" expedition. Ever heard of it? Most people haven't, but for us, tales of "the Hole" are part of our family lore. My mother's grandfather was one of only 3 babies born on that remarkable pioneer journey. So when my mom heard what Lund's new book was about, she bought us all a copy.

It took me a little while to get to it because, frankly, I was daunted by The Undaunted - it is 800 pages long! But once the holidays were finally over and I had a bit more time for reading, it was the first book I wanted to read. To tell the truth, I was a little frustrated because I was almost 400 pages into the book before Lund finally started getting to the meat of the book - the expedition. He spent the first half of the book setting up his fictional story, which was interesting and all, but I wanted to read about the expedition, so I was glad to finally get the preliminaries over with.

The "Hole in the Rock" expedition took place in 1879-80. Several families from Southern Utah were called on a mission to settle the San Juan valley in the Four Corners area . They sold their homes and businesses to follow the call. My ancestors, Mons and Olivia Larson, were not actually part of these "San Juan missionaries." Brigham Young had actually called the Larsons to settle Arizona, but were friends of Silas Smith, the leader of this expedition, and so decided to travel with this group and then continue on to their own destination.

After it had been established that a Northern route and a Southern route were both infeasible, the group set forward on a direct route Eastward. But once they had gone a ways, they realized that the way they were going was some of the roughest country anywhere - even impassible. But it was late fall, and the pass that they had come through already was now stopped up with snow and they could not turn back. It reminds me of the children's game "can't go over it, can't go under it, got to go through it!" They decided that their only options were to wait out the winter there in the desert with little resources, or move forward. They prayerfully chose to move forward.

Their first and most major obstacle was the "Hole in the Rock" for which the expedition was named. They were up on a high plateau and had to cross the Colorado river which was thousands of feet down steep cliffs below them. It seemed that there was no way down, until they discovered a deep cleft in the rock cliffs that might just be turned into a road. It took 6 weeks of blasting and road building, and a whole lot of Mormon ingenuity and hard work, but they finally were able to create a road wide enough to allow wagons to descend. It was extremely steep, 45-50 degrees, and absolutely frightening for all involved, especially the horses! Amazingly, all 80+ wagons made it down safely. My great great grandmother, Olivia, walked down the trecherous Hole, holding a baby in each arm, and was only a few weeks away from giving birth again. Remarkable!

But once they were finally down the Hole, their problems were just beginning. They had to cross the river, build roads back up the cliffs on the other side of the river, just to find more deep ravines, cliffs, rivers, slick mud, deep sand, thick forests, scarce water, and lots and lots and lots of big rocks. But there were also a good many miracles as well, and testimony building right along with the road building.

My grandparents were mentioned a few times in Lund's book. In Chapter 66, the fictional character records in her journal "Great joy in camp today in spite of snow. Olivia Larson, (wife of Mons Larson) gave birth to a baby boy today. Named him John Rio Larson - Rio is Spanish for river- because near here is a magnificent view of the San Juan River far below the mesa."

And in the footnote of the chapter Lund gives much more information about Olivia and Mons and the remarkable circumstances of the birth. Olivia gave birth in the middle of a harsh blizzard on the spring seat of the wagon while her husband was trying to put up the tent. Later, after giving birth, she was in the tent when a huge wind came and lifted it up and she reached up and held the tent down herself. Not the most comfortable of circumstances for giving birth.

It was actually the people in the company that gave my great grandfather his name. He spelled it John Reo, not John Rio, but he was indeed named after the San Juan River. My brother named his son after this good and stalwart man, my mom's grandfather.

The footnotes also mention that because of Olivia's "unusual vitality" she was up and traveling again over the rocky terrain in just a few days with her new baby. "If it wasn't snowing she would bathe him," it said, "otherwise, this wise mother of 23 years old, who now had three babies, rubbed him well with flannel instead of bathing him."

I was so excited to have my great, great grandmother (and personal heroine) mentioned in this way. Her story is remarkable.

There was one part of Lund's book that bugged me a bit. In one part the fictional character David, and another boy, were kicked off of a ferry by spooked livestock and into the freezing river. This event did happen, only it was Mons Larsen, my great great grandfather, who was knocked into the river, and not the fictional character. In fact, Mons rescued the other boy and saved his life. I understand why Lund would have his fictional character do it instead, of course, but there was no footnote on that. Perhaps Lund didn't know. But now you know. That was Grandpa.

In the end, the company took 6 months to make the "impossible" journey, but they DID make it, against all odds, and remarkably, without any loss of life. And when the journey was over for the rest of the company, my ancestors still had a long trip ahead of them and still faced many harrowing experiences (especially with Indians!) when they were on their own - just Mons, Olivia, and 3 small children. It took them 11 months to reach their new home.

I was enthralled with the book, and amazed by what these people went through. Fortunately, Lund created a great interactive website http://www.undaunted-thenovel.com/ that is really interesting. It has maps, pictures, and video to really give you a better idea of what he is describing in the book. It is a great source of information about this remarkable piece of Mormon history. I kept referring to it while reading the book.

When I was finished with the book, I had to pull out my family history and read that account of Mons and Olivia's story. It all made much more sense to me, and my love and appreciation for these good people really grew. Not only were they people in church history that became real to me, but people in my own history.

It was interesting to me that on the same day I was reading about their experiences in the wilderness, I was also reading in 1 Nephi where Lehi's family is traveling through the wilderness and their wives are blessed with strength like unto men and they were able to deliver healthy babies in the wilderness and have plenty of milk for them. I saw so many parallels. It also was the same weekend that we had stake conference. I had complained about my calling and how hard and time consuming it is all the way to the temple on Friday night. Yep, I was murmuring. Then I went to the temple, where I became painfully aware of my own murmuring. That was reinforced the next evening at the adult session of Stake Conference when President Stearman and President Stanger spoke on our need to be willing to serve and to sacrifice for the Lord and his church. Many words were spoken that I needed to hear. Then I finished The Undaunted, the very next day, followed by my family history, where I read about these people and their commitment to fulfill their callings at all costs.

In the Larson family history it says that in preparation of the move, Mons' "property was disposed of with considerable sacrifice, yet the thought of not honoring the call had never entered his mind."

And later Olivia stated about her Hole in the Rock experience "All in the world that carried us through was knowing that we were on a mission. We tried to fulfill it and the Lord cared for us and protected us, so I never worried." What a marvelous statement!

All of this has really given me a lot to think about. What a great example she, and all of these pioneers are to me. What do I have to complain about, really? Sure, being YW president and raising 6 boys is tough, but not impossible. I cannot say that I am 'Undaunted'. I need to come at it with a better attitude. The Lord sent me six boys, and the Lord, knowing this, also called me to be YW president (a calling I do love, by the way. I really do love those girls. It is just all of the time involved and the stress it puts on me and my family that I whine about.) I need to remember, like my great great grandmother did, that the Lord is caring for me and my family and the girls and I should not worry either.

(It sounds almost ridiculous of me to even be comparing my calling to what these pioneers went through, doesn't it? So why on earth do I whine as much as I do? Ugh. I bet Olivia wouldn't have complained about seven straight Saturdays being filled with YW stuff during roadshow season. A walk in the park.)

I cannot say that from now on I will be undaunted, but I hope to be a little less daunted. I cannot promise to stop my whining (sorry Dennis, mom, and my presidency), but I want to try harder to have the right attitude about what the Lord has called me to do, and then dig in and do a little road building of my own.

In stake conference Pres. Stanger promised us that if we keep our covenants and fulfill our callings, our children will be blessed. I know that is true because my ancestors, Mons and Olivia Larson did, and I have been truly blessed for their undaunted faith and sacrifice.