Sunday, September 21, 2014

Adios Elder Alex!

We wanted to send Alex off on his mission in style, so we threw him a big fiesta "Adios!" party.  One look at the decor and there could be no mistaking about where he is going.  Mexico!


One of Dennis' clients owns a Mexican restaurant, and they helped cater much of the food.  It was beautiful and delicious!



Colorful sombreros and Mexican flags.


I made the colorful Adios banner with my cricut.

Inside, we had a dessert table which featured a Mexican candy bar.  This was a big hit with the kids!


The adults preferred  the tres leches cake, the chocoflan, and the amazing key lime cheesecake made by my dear friend, Diane Caress!

I also had some colorful cards out on the table for people to write down their best missionary advice, or words of encouragement, or favorite scripture that I later bound into a small book for Alex to take with him.



My dear friend Roxanne brought us a special gift - these adorable missionary puppets.  She thought they might come in 'handy' as proxy for Alex at family home evenings and such.  They sure were a hit at the party!  Awesome!  Thanks Roxy!


So many good people came to see Alex off!  I counted about 100!

Even with all of those guests, there was still plenty of food!


 What a lovely evening!

The colorful sunset coordinated perfectly with the decor.  Nice touch!



Enjoying the September evening with friends.

Alex stays near the front door to greet all those coming and going.

And out back, they guys play some good old soccer with a Mexico soccer ball, of course.  It looks like tackle soccer.


The youth gathered around the game cube all night.





Saying goodbye to some dear friends, Cameron & Emmanuel.

The three amigos!  Ole!
(Notice the photo bomb by the missionary puppet. nice)
Many people were so good to give Alex gifts, including about a ton of Mexican candies!  I guess they figure it might be hard to come by where he is going. He was in heaven.  I'm glad we got the expandable suitcase for him.  (Maybe he will be able to use lucas in the MTC like they use cigarettes in prison - to trade for privileges.)

What a wonderful evening!  He could not possibly feel unloved after so much support and love from so many!  He really felt ready after such a send off!

Adios Elder VanBuskirk!  We all love you!

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Kauai Trip: Aloha!

It was August 17.  In exactly one month from that date, our oldest son would enter the MTC.  A year from now, Nathan. By the time he gets home, the twins will likely be out.  As exciting as that all is, it also means that we will not all be together again as a family for a very long time, and certainly never again just Mom and Dad and 6 kids.  Though it once seemed like it would never happen, this magical time all together is quickly coming to an end.  We knew we needed a grand finale.

I also believe in the value of the good old family vacation, that special memories and lasting bonds are formed in sharing these experiences together away from everything and everybody else. (Pleas note: I also believe in great value of the kid-free vacation as well.  Yeah, baby!)  

That is why even though we are right in the middle of building a house and selling a house; even though cash is extremely tight as a result; even though school is starting, and we will miss the first few days -  we packed our bags in the car that morning, went to church, and drove to LAX.  That is why on this day of August 17th, we were on our way to our very last adventure together on the beautiful island of Kauai!


Still mostly in Sunday dress, we had rushed straight from church to LAX, and didn't get a chance to change until we got to the airport via parking shuttle.

Everyone, that is, except Derek, who seemed comfortable enough to stay in his white shirt and tie. He looked like a missionary, or if he were a little older, a businessman. As we were getting off the plane after the flight I overheard one flight attendant tell the other, "That guy needs to loose the tie!  There is NO need for a tie in Kauai."  Haha.

The flight went well.  I sat with Alex (Yay!  Any time I can spend with that kid before he leaves is a good thing.) and Luke, who was disappointed that he did not get the window until he realized that all you could see on a trip to Hawaii was a wing and the water - and then it got dark.

When we arrived it was very late: nearly 10 PM Hawaii time, and 1AM our time.  It was dark and we couldn't see anything as we sat outside and waited for Dennis to arrive with the rental car, but we could feel the lovely tropical evening air, and we could just smell it too!  From the very moment you arrive you can smell that you are in a very wonderful place!  Kauai just smells wonderful!

After getting all packed up into our lovely island mini van, we found our way easily to our resort, got our room keys, made a quick assessment that our room (which had room enough to sleep all 8 of us comfortably) was awesome, then quickly all selected one of those beds, and crashed.

I woke early, with the sun.  I couldn't wait to finally SEE this place that felt and smelled so wonderful!  As soon as it was light enough, I made my way out onto the lanai and saw this:

Yes, that is the ocean right there between those buildings!  We had a beautiful view of lush colorful gardens, a lagoon, swaying coconut palms, and the Pacific Ocean to boot!  I was so excited!  We were truly in paradise!

We were staying at Marriott's Waiohai Beach Club on the sunny southern shore in Poipu.  It was awesome!


Soon my younger ones were awake and joined me out on the lanai to take it all in.  Wow!


One thing we noticed right away were roosters crowing.  We noticed several chickens and roosters down on the grass below us.  At first we though it was interesting that the resort kept a hen house, but we soon came to find out that those are all quite literally free range chickens.  Back in 1992 Hurricane Iniki hit this island hard, causing a lot of damage that is still in evidence today, including destroying a poultry farm on the island, freeing all the chickens whose descendants are still running around ALL OVER the whole island!  You can't even hike into the deepest darkest jungle here without coming across a hen leading her chicks around (Yes, I know - very exotic!)  In Kauai, the sound of roosters crowing is constant, (not just first thing in the morning.)  Then again, if I were a rooster living free in paradise I might feel like crowing too!  It is such a part of life here that I will never again hear a cock-a-doodle-do without thinking of Kauai.


The view from the balcony was nice, but I was SO anxious to get out there and SEE this beautiful place.  I tried to wake up the rest of the family.  At first they were very hard to rouse, but then when they remembered where they were, they were just as anxious to check it out as I was, so we all went out to explore the resort, and the island together.  Yippee!


In the lagoon there was a swan and koi fish, surrounded by beautiful exotic plants and flowers.  Nice.



And at the far end of the property - the beach!  We stood there for a moment and just looked out at it in the morning sun.  So beautiful!  The water was so much bluer than it is in California!

But we only gazed at it a minute before we HAD to get our toes in that sand!

The sand was golden and gritty and felt wonderful underfoot!


Oh yeah!  Definitely worth waking up early for.


A stroll up the beach to Poipu Beach park right next door.  It is a beautiful family beach with lots of grass and chickens, and folks were already starting to show up with their snorkel gear or surfboards.  We were all anxious to get our swimsuits on and join them!

But we were also really hungry.  Really hungry!  With no food in the kitchen, and Costco still hours from opening, we decided to bite the bullet and buy breakfast there at the resort. (a rare treat for a family of 8, I assure you.)  

And while we were there, I discovered that the resort had a great list of activities!  And the first activity of the day?  Mom insists on it.  Hula lessons!  Oh yeah!

At first my boys were, well,...reluctant (to put it mildly), especially when the gal showed up with a big basket of hula skirts.  Dennis suggested that maybe the guys would all just watch me do it.  But the instructor insisted that hula was for men as much as it is was for women, and showed them how to make it manly with stuff like fist pumping and grunting; no hula skirts required.  Yep, they started out just watching my pathetic attempts at dancing, but it only took them moments to all decided to join in.


Judge for yourself.  I think they really, really enjoyed learning the huki lau.  Don't you?  I know they were singing it and doing the moves for the rest of the day.  Thanks, Mom, for forcing us to do something fun.


So I was pleasantly surprised when Nathan informed me that he had signed the two of us up for the next resort activity: a craft, no less!  

Yes, Nate, my huge manly man, senior wanted to try his hand at braiding ti leaves.  It was actually really fun, and Nathan was a natural - like he had been braiding his whole life.  I'm pretty sure his turned out better than mine.  And although the class was described as making a Hawaiian "hair decoration" and he was the only male in the room, we decided that the ti leaf braids looked very manly when worn on the wrists, especially when you make a fist and scowl.  Island tough.


And as great at the resort activities were, the ocean kept calling my name.  So when this cute kiddo invited me to come snorkeling with him, you know I couldn't resist any longer!


I bought an underwater camera just for this trip, and I was so excited to use it, especially once I saw what was down there!  The water was so clear and the colors so vibrant.


The giant slug Dylan put in his mouth in Oregon was so tasty that he wanted to see how a sea slug compared.  Weird kid.




After our dip in the ocean we found Dennis and Luke hanging out in the pool.  Luke borrowed my waterproof camera for a bit, as you can see by these underwater selfies.  These are just a few samples - he took dozens.

All this water was making us hungry again so Dennis ordered up some Hawaiian nachos by the pool.  Eat them quick before all your brothers find out and we'll have to share!  (Large family survival skills.)


Later I found some time to just relax and enjoy the cool late afternoon breeze hanging out on a hammock on the grass next to the lagoon.  (This is when I was glad I got my toes done before I left!  Thanks Shari!) That is actually our room right where my toes are pointing, and the top right picture is the view up from the hammock.



It was so nice to be able to catch my breath and contemplate all the crazy wonderful things that are going on in my life while stepped away from most of them:  Life is good.  God is good.  My family is everything.  That is what is all pretty much boils down to.



Later I found the rest of the crew hanging out in the lobby lanai, looking relaxed and happy: happy to be here, and happy to know that we still get 13 more days in this beautiful place.  Aloha!



Monday, August 25, 2014

Oregon Coast Trip: Feasting from the Sea


After glassblowing on Thursday, we stopped by the lighthouse nearest our resort; Lighthouse #4 - the Yaquina Bay lighthouse.  This is a literal light - house, as the light sits on top of the home of the lighthouse keeper.  It is quite a charming place.



Luke wanted to be the one to sign us up on the guest register.


He was so cute.  He explained to me that when he wrote it he misspelled "family" by forgetting the "m", but told me not to worry because he used a little carrot to add the "m" and that the use of a carrot works just fine.  This kid is so dear to my former English teacher's heart!


Dylan is rather bothered by this human hair sculpture.




The lighthouse keep lived here with his wife and seven children.



Interestingly, this lighthouse was only in commission for 3 years.  After opening it was quickly determined that the light was too small, and also that the house was not in a good location as the light was hidden on much of the coast.  So 3 years later when the Yaquina Head lighthouse was completed just north of there, the Yaquina Bay lighthouse was decommissioned.







A close-up of the Yaquina Bay Bridge that we can see from our room.




Later we went to check out "Historic" Nye Beach - the beach destination in central Oregon.  I guess we are too used to our SoCal beaches because we were kind of disappointed by what we found.  It was windy and nippy - not exactly your summer playground.



It had potential.  Wide sandy beaches, crashing waves, a lighthouse in the distance.  Only problem is, it had no sun.



That didn't stop my boys from exploring.






But there is an upside to it being a touristy beach - it has a few fun shops, and I ducked out of the biting wind to visit them.






It also helped that no one was around so I could take some peopleless photos.









Oh well.  I guess we will save our beach going for back home in Southern California.



That evening Dennis and I left the boys back in the room with a few pizzas and walked down to the bay front together for a date.




We dined at a place called Local Ocean which made all their dishes from seafood and other items that are all caught/grown locally.  It was hopping, so we knew it would be good.


Shrimp crostini.  Yummy and fresh!


Dennis' choice - a tuna mignon: bacon wrapped tuna streak over veggies and fried onions.  It is tuna season, and the tuna was so tender and tasty.


I had something called the Brazilian seafood stew, though it seemed more Thai than Brazilian to me.  It was fish, shrimp, scallops, crab, and local mushrooms, onions, and tomatoes in a coconut curry broth. It was pretty darn incredible!


When we returned to the Embarcadero, we found Alex, Luke, and Caleb still out crabbing on the dock.  They couldn't wait to show us that night's catch.


Hello tasty little fellas!









Luke is always playing with his food.



The next morning Nate and the twins got up really really early because those are fishermen's hours.


They had reservations to go out deep sea fishing that morning.



They seem really excited!  That is the same look I get waking them up for seminary every morning.


Buck up, boys.  You are going to have fun!  Bring us home some dinner.



And they headed out to sea on the Gracie K.


The rest of us just had a relaxing morning.  I went for another bike ride.  This time I tried to ride along the coast, but it was rough because there was construction on the Oregon Coast bike route, and all the detours I tried either led to dead ends or became unpaved.  It was a frustrating, and ultimately rather start ride, but I did get some pretty views of the coast and (though you can't really see it in the picture) the Yaquina Head lighthouse.


 Meanwhile Dennis and the other boys just hung out on the dock trying their best to deplete the local crab population.








Dennis's home-away-from-home office.

Little jelly...


Big jelly.


Meanwhile, out at sea...




Cheer up kid.



That's better.  





While we were on the docks we saw the Gracie K returning to the docks.  We hoped it was heavy with today's catch.


The boys were just inside the cabin pretending not to notice the crazy people waving from the crabbing dock, but the captain waved!



They boys' catch - rockfish and bass.  Unfortunately that scrumptious-looking salmon that they caught had to be released for legal reasons that had something to do with the hook. Oh well.






My handsome fishermen.  It was worth getting up early for this!



We had them cleaned and were were ready to feast!




But before dinner we had one more place to see and one very simple thing to do.


Lighthouse #5 - Yaquina Head lighthouse.



It was not open for tours.  Note: This lighthouse was run by the BLM instead of Oregon State parks or privately.  You could tell that it was run by the federal government, because it was run down and looked terrible, where all the other lighthouses that we had see had been all restored and were well taken care of.














And this was the very simple thing we had to do:


Seven years ago we came to this very same beach and took a few family pictures like the one above.  I just love the smooth black rocks and the driftwood log bleached white in the sun.  I didn't know much about photography then, so their faces were in the dark, but it was still a picture that I have always loves - my little guys all lines up in a row.  Now that we were back in Oregon together, I really wanted to just snap another one like it.

Just jeans and white shirts.  You already packed the white shirts for church and they don't even have to be ironed.  Heck, we are at the beach, so you don't even have to comb your hair.  All you have to do, for me, your dear mother, is to sit on a log with your brothers so that we can get a few pictures.  That's it.  Easy, right?

Easier said than done.

Just the mention of the idea brought all kinds of whining and complaints from my family.  There was  weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth.  Mother had a clearly horrendous request.  Some children balked, some couldn't find the requisite white shirt or jeans, and when the time came one child was taking too long in the bathroom trying to get his hair just right and another child simply disappeared altogether.

When we got to the beach, things didn't get any better.  We happened to get there at low tide, and this happens to be a great spot for exploring tide pools, so the normally secluded beach was crawling with people.  And of course, the boys wanted to go poke sea anemones rather than take pics, and I had to round them all up.  Happily, the driftwood log was still there, but sitting the wrong way so their faces were in the sun and the water was not in the background. Good enough.  I finally got everyone on the log, and had one final request: take off your shoes.  More murmuring ensued.  This is dumb.  Who cares about shoes? Mom is being such a mom.  So I made them sit there on that log until they removed their shoes and threw them - but not far enough to get out of the picture, so then I had to run around (not easily done on rocks) and collect them all before I could the the shot.  Finally I had to convince everyone, even though they were already done in their minds, to sit up straight, look right into the sun, and smile.

Easy right?



Nope.  But totally worth it to get another cute pic or two of my guys lined up on a driftwood log on a black stone beach.







This is where my being immune to whining pays off.


I brought my tripod so we could get a few pics of the whole fam, but that too proved to be trickier that I thought.  The rocks and the steep incline didn't make a very stable surface for a tripod, and they also don't work to well for running on, so I could never get back to my spot before the timer went off.


Finally we got a few, just these two actually, before my family had really had enough.  Those two would have to do.  The kids were off that log and in the tide pools.


Fine then.  How about one with just me and my honey?  After all, this is what started it all.







I love this handsome man!


Yes, we always wear white dress shirts to explore tide pools. So what?






























Look at the seals!





Dylan and Luke watch dozens of seals sunning themselves on a rocky outcropping.

 
Such a beautiful coastline.









The tide started rolling in, and we all got hungry, so everyone headed back up to the car.


I stuck around a few more minutes up on top of the cliffs to get a few photos of the magnificent landscape.


When I finally got to the car, i was informed that Caleb wasn't there and nobody knew where he was.  I took off to go find him.


There he was, way down below on the now deserted black rock beach, throwing rocks into the ocean, oblivious the his entire family, and everybody else for that matter, had disappeared.  The ocean was loud so he couldn't hear me and I had to climb all the way back down to get his attention.


Funny kid.


On the way back to the room, we decided to stop one more time at the docks to see what the fishermen had brought in that day.






Today it was Tuna, just plucked from the sea.



We couldn't help but buy ourselves a couple of fine specimens right off the boat.


While they were being cleaned, Caleb, Luke, and I explored fishing boats that were docked there.


This fisherman got in the boat and called to his dog "You coming or not?"  Sire enough, that pup jumped right on for the ride.











Loading up some huge albacore found way out in the deep waters just that morning.



Luke makes a new friend.






We have our fish all cleaned and ready to eat.  Lets get back to the room for our seafood feast!


Our bounteous catch of crabs from the last few days.


Oh yeah!




Now, who get to crack them all open and get the bits of tasty meat?



Crab meat sure is labor intensive!  You probably burn more calories getting to it that you take in actually eating it.  No wonder it is so expensive.  But so delicious it is worth all the effort.


We also had the mussels we had collected.


We also feasted on some of the fish the boys had bought that morning, so tasty with a little butter and lemon, and Dennis seared up some of the tuna steaks we had just bought in honey mustard sauce.

What a feast from the sea!


It was the perfect way to spend our last evening in Oregon, as we watched the last fishing boats come in as the sun set over Yaquina Bay from our balcony.






Morning came.  It was departure day.  But I had one more thing I wanted to do before I left and I was determined to do it today.

I was going to ride my bike over the Yaquina Bay bridge.  I was going to do it on an earlier ride in the week, but chickened out because traffic was heavy and there is absolutely no bike lane on the bridge.  So I had determined, that early Saturday morning was my best bet.  But as I look out the window that morning, the fog and rolled in and I couldn't even see the bridge!  Bummer.  So I waited while my family slept.



Finally the clouds rolled away, and so did I.  This was my only chance.  

Bikes are allowed on the bridge.  In fact, the bridge and others like it along the coast are all part of the official Oregon coast bike trail.  We had seen many bikers in our week here who were taking days and even weeks to pedal their way up or down the coast.  It looks so fun!  Maybe someday.

At the end of the bridge, there is a button (like a crosswalk button) that riders push before getting on the bridge that turns on a flashing light warning drivers that a bike is on the bridge.   So I pushed it and off I went.  It was awesome! There was still very little traffic at that hour, and the cars that did come by were  considerate enough to slow down as they passed.  All but one truck, who felt it necessary at that early hour to get right behind me and lay on the horn.  There is always one.  Share the road, buddy!

When I got across the bridge, I just turned around and went back over the other way.  No honkers this time, but it was mostly uphill on the way back.  Back over the bridge, I was not ready to call it a day, even though we really needed to get packed, get checked out, and get on the road.  No, the morning was just too beautiful, so I decided to take that route I took on my first ride here, the one that runs along the bay following the marathon route.  I ended up doing the whole thing, and just hoped that somehow the gang would get themselves up and ready without me.  It was a lovely ride!



We did get up and out on time, but didn't hit the road until we hit the local landmark that Dennis had been promising the boys all week - breakfast at the Pig 'N Pancake.


The pigs were good, and the pancakes even better.  My sourdough pancakes were tops!


It was a long and uneventful ride home.  We took the 5 freeway and made no stops of note.  We spent the night in Stockton (in a hotel this time - we took no chances) and went to church there in a beautiful building.  They have several deaf members in the ward, and signing sister missionaries.  One old man gave a talk that was translated by a sister.  He said he had been deaf his whole life.  And he bore a very short, but powerful and moving testimony of our Savior and his relationship with Him and with the scriptures.  I will never forget it.